My boyfriend suggested we go to a sex club?

Sex clubs arent all they're choked up to be. It's not a utopian orgy fest, more like a lot of straight guys wandering around, some sitting around with their schlongs out while others try to stare in the other direction. Sometimes there's sex but it's all just a little awkward. It's the fantasy of a lot of people, not just men, but if you're not interested in a swinging relationship, you should talk to him and make that very clear. Some people are simply not hardwired to be sexually monogamous and you may not just be compatible in that sense.